Gradually whisk in the flour until smooth. Whisk in one cup of the milk until smooth.

Whisk in the rest of the milk. (The order is really important here, both to minimize the number of dishes you have to wash, and more importantly to prevent lumps. This order is a patented technique developed by a pathological Swedish Pancake maker: ME!). Whisk in the butter, water, chocolate mixture (Reserve the chocolate bowl to make the glaze).
