Over medium heat in a small or medium sauce pan add cardamom pods, white wine, sugar, lemon juice, saffron and salt. Bring to a simmer. Add the apricots.
Reduce temperature and cover.
Cook until softened and remove from heat to cool**. To cool faster, pull the apricots out of the liquid and set aside.
Add the jam and the brandy to the warm poaching liquid and whisk until consistent. If you need to reheat a little that’s fine.
Remove from heat and let cool.
Reserve one of the whole poached apricots.
Rough chop the remaining apricots.
Crumble the amaretti into a glass bowl.
Sprinkle half of the chopped apricots over the amaretti.
Drizzle half of the jam brandy mixture on the amaretti.
Spread the cubed sponge cake over the top.
Spoon on the rest of the apricots and all but 2 tablespoons of the liquid over the cake.

Cover and refrigerate until you’re ready to complete the assembly.
For the custard, put the cream and milk in a medium sauce pan and heat until almost boiling. Remove from heat and add the vanilla. If you’re using a vanilla pod you’ll want to let it infuse for 10-20 minutes.
Beat the yolks and sugar in a medium bowl.
Add ½ cup of the milk/cream mix and whisk until smooth. Add another cup of the milk and mix well. Add the remaining milk and add back into the sauce pan.
Cook over a low heat and whisk frequently until thick enough to coat the back of a spoon. Don’t let it boil.
Pour into the bowl, cover, and let cool (if you’re speeding this along, 20 minutes in the freezer followed by some time in the fridge works well.
To assemble, spoon the custard over the apricots and cake. Cover and put back in the fridge.
Add the final 2 cups of heavy whipping cream to a mixing bowl. With an electric mixer, beat until it holds its shape, gradually adding the granulated sugar.
When soft peaks for, beat in the 2 tablespoons reserved jam brandy mixture and mix until firm but still cream.
Spoon the cream over the trifle.
Center the reserved apricot. Surround the edged of the bowl with slices of stone fruit. Check out all those gorgeous layers.
